Who Is ME:
Who I Can Be
The Act of Becoming by Believing in You Nonstop
About the book
Most people spend years trying to figure out who they are. Sanjay Divakar started at six.
Who Is ME: Who I Can Be is not a success story. It's the story before the story — the bedroom floors covered in papers, the promises that almost broke him, the team that walked away without warning, and the slow, deliberate work of rebuilding from the inside out.
Through personal stories and hard-won clarity, Sanjay explores how identity actually forms — not in a single moment, but across thousands of quiet ones. How the people who shaped you leave marks you don't recognize until later. And how understanding your inner "role" changes the way you lead, communicate, and show up for the people around you.
This isn't about having the answers early. It's about learning to ask better questions — and having the courage to sit with what comes back.
Becoming isn't a destination. It's a direction. And this book marks where the next version begins.
Description from the publisher, Pegasus Publishers.What you'll take from it.
Inside the bookTwo stages, one story.
Sanjay's two TEDx talks are part of the story this book tells. Watch them here.
About the author
Sanjay Divakar is the Founder & CEO of RoleColorFinder, a behavioral leadership platform that helps organizations reduce the Behavioral Tax: the cost of role misalignment under pressure. A multi-time TEDx speaker raised across Chennai, Dubai, and Greenwich, he speaks on leadership and on rethinking how schools measure and prepare students.